Hi Lucie, based purely on your post I would say the main issue is that your family has experienced a huge upheavel: a house move. For adults this can be one of lifes biggest stresses so its not suprising your little girl is reacting. I think to a certain degree your have to ride the storm and accept she will take time to settle down. I won't drown on!! A few do's and dont's (only my opinion, of course)
Although, her comfortor has been taken away: her bottle - I would'nt introduce it again as you then have to go through the weaning her off it stage, and as you point out she was only chewing on it - you could offer her something to replace this - a teddy, a fav toy to cuddle at night, one of those little blankie toys maybe - something else to think about (as only have info from your post) children teeth up to three was she chewing to comfort teething pain - only you know the answer to this as you have her all day.
I would'nt get into/start taking her into your bed as again another prob is created later as you then have to break that habit.
I think (as your prob already doing) before bed during this period give her extra cuddles and love, attention leading up to bedtime, extra story etc (you can get childrens books woth stories about moving house - this may help her understand whats happened) when she wakes - with as little fuss as possible - go to her cuddle her, settle her with her teddy/toy, explain its time for sleep, keep it calm and quiet then return to your bed. The more fuss and play you have with her, then she will expect this, and it is likely to become another habit. As long as shes not upset she may after doing this for a few nights settle herself to sleep as she will come to realise that she gains nothing by waking in the night. If she becomes tearful/upset after settling her, settle her by cuddling again then return to your room/bed. As long as shes not doing anything to endanger herself then once settled by you she can be left to attempt to fall back to sleep on her own.
During day talk to her about the postitives of the new house, area and make it like its a really exciting time for her, and all the fun things she can do now you've moved. If you've been or are anxious yourself about the move be careful not to demonstrate this to her (children pick up on our anxieties, even when you think they are busy playing)
Hope this has been at least some help
Good Luck
Vicky x
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