I have 15 months old daughter. She is breastfed till now sleeping trough the evening but because i don't have any change dutring the night i started to sleep with her in other room to give him a rest and not walking back and farward to her. During the I'm napping with her as she sleep better and longer with me and I can enjoy busy day and be fast as she is. Is it really a crime to give love time and attention to the child even bacause i have no one here of ny family I;m completely alone. Is it so bad to rest during the day to survive till the evening and have time for my man? I love to be full time mum and saving money on babbysitters. Is it so bad to not put the house on the first place but still running the household somehow and cooking for everyone and not giving a jars ? Am I so bad as he describe me not "usefull like before the child"? I feel like a thing here to do everything and more and never enough good. Thank for opinions. Maggie and Nicole.

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Hi, My husband said you are a very good wife and mother. He said that your man sounds selfish and ungrateful! he also said that your man does not deserve to have you! It sounds like your man is jealous of the time and attention you give to your child. It seems to me that he is behaving like a child that will never grow up! Ignore his horrible comments and carry on doing a wonderful job as a mother. Good Luck and take care X

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Oh thank you so much for this words. Thank you both and nice to here that I'm not only one to think this way. I will follow my way to give my child all I can because they are our future and without them will be really empty life. Thanks again.

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