Hi, it very much depends on where your going abroad. In some counties you can't drink the water so if your making bottles you need to think about that, it can be done but its a h**l of a lot of work or even if your breastfeeding and you have food poisoning (as you often do when abroad) it will effect the milk, and this will be a nightmare for you and your baby. Also its very soon after the birth, if you go over your dates then it will be even sooner after the birth. If you have a rough birth i.e. caesarean, or 3rd degree tear then its not going to be much of a holiday for you, also you have the added stress of caring for your baby in a foreign country, and believe me its hard enough with a first born when your in your own home, first few months its chaos! plus a newborn needs time to settle, its an awlful lot of upheavel for them, and again this will impact on you. Plus if they are poorly abroad you have to rely on health service in that country, and if they don't speak English then even more stressful!
I, like you had a holiday booked prior to pregnancy, she would have been 11 weeks when we planned to go, no chance!! knowing whats involved in taking a baby so young abroad, I cancelled as it wouldnt have been a holiday, just an added stress/pressure on top of having a newborn. Ive rebooked ours and she'll be 9 months old, still going to be a bit of a nightmare but it'll be more of a holiday at least.
Hope that helps
Vicky x
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