katie

does it get any better?
08/08/2008

hiya, im pregnant wiv my first im 17weeks n 2days,n throught out the time shown above iv had nothin but major mood swings paronya and i just wanna lash out coz i feel no one is listening or helpin me. im scared of pushin my partner away by my constant paronoya and jelousy and i really couldnt live wiv out him and im just wonderin wether its gonna get better or worse coz i dont think i cud cope wiv out else its really gettin to me and stressin me out bid time . anyone wiv any advice please please let us no asap id really apreciate itxxxx

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Vikki

Re: does it get any better?
08/08/2008

Hi Katie, I know how you feel, im 18wks+4, and ive found that im really intollerant of people at the moment-everyone annoys me. I went mad beacuase i couldn't find a blue pen the other day at work! An hour later i was still going on about it! I work in retail, and i find that if im moody that i have to work out in the stock room for a couple of hours-dont wanna shout at customers!!! Im sure it does get better, i cant say from experience but there might be a few things that help-they help me. Say how you feeling, at home with your partner or at work. I apologise before it happens! People tend to understand, and im sure if your partner loves you, he will understand. Spend some time on your own every once in a while. Have a long soak in the bath-pamper yourself, and lastly, watch a comedy, with your partner. Laughing makes you feel good, its hard to be moody when your laughing!!! I hope this is useful to you x x x x

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Natalie

Re: does it get any better?
08/08/2008

hi im 39+3 and mine has got worse!! especially with my partner. i have a go at the slightest thing but the main being when he says hes tired and i say i am too-we have a 20 month old who i run round after all day-and he thinks work is harder then being pregnant and looking after her. we have had alot more arguments this preganncy mainly coz i lash out and have been alot more tired and i feel like no one understands! i also had a broken ankle for 6 bweeks (2weeks ago i got my cast off) and that put mega strain on us coz i was bedridden but he still had to wokr and i still had to look after our daughter. in my first preg it did get better so u might be ok but as long as u can sit and tell ur partner how u feel then you shoud be ok. just try not to get into arguments-easier said then done i know but i try to switch off if see it going into an argument x

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Claire

Re: does it get any better?
09/08/2008

Hi Katie, I have also had mood swings and seem to get stressed really easily sometimes and have found myself apologising to work colleagues on more than one occasion. I would say that the best thing to do is remember why your having the mood swings, it's just your hormones. If you find yourself feeling stressed/angry try to relax, take a break from what your doing get some fresh air & a drink of water/cup of tea. I hope that this helps and that you enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. Take care, Claire xXx

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katie

Re: does it get any better?
12/08/2008

thanks vikki that really helps and it helps to know tat it aint just me goping through it and tat im not alone thanks xxxx

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katie

Re: does it get any better?
12/08/2008

thnks to all who as helped me by givin me sum good advice its really helped and its good ta no that im not alone thanks again katie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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