me and my partner have a 3 year old daughter and my partner has 5 year old son to someone else he comes to stay for the weekends but he is a very naughty little boy he is very violent both talking and physically and my daughter totally changes when he is around and basically turns into him i dont want this influence around my daughter anymore but i dont know what to do about it as i feel like people will think im just being nasty to the boy cos he is from my partners previous relationship and i dont want to hurt my partners feelings as he obviously loves his child no matter what but i just cant bring myself to care for him im really sorry if this sounds nasty to some people

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Hi hun I understand what you are saying and i think you need to speak to your partner and let him know how you feel as something needs to be done incase someone gets hurt. If you with the child try and bring in some kind of if you are good you get a sticker and good for the whole weekend say a sweet or something. Good luc

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Hi Kids pick up on all sorts of stuff. Did his dad and previous partner have a bad break up? Can you think of anything that would make him act up. How has he taken to you. If it was me I sit down with my partner and explain how you feel becuse at the end of the day you main priority is your liitle girl. If that didnt work maybe you could do a reward system e.g. if hes good maybe take him to the park if not get down to his level make eye contact and tell him why you are not going. if you didnt feel comfie doing this because it another womans child get his dad to do it. If all else fails maybe talk to his mum about his behaviour maybe shes picked up on something. I know from experince it isnt alwys poss to speak to the ex partner. Hope you get it sorted and find out why he doe this LET US KNOW HOW YOU GET ON! Hugs Becky and Baby Leah

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